I always believed that everything happens for a reason, even meeting people who would hurt us, leave us or show us that our trust was in the wrong person.
Those words are not said to justify their actions but rather to teach us how to be strong after, to teach us that we only get left because it was not meant to be because the right person will come and show us why it never worked with anyone else. to teach us how to forgive those who hurt us, but not for them but for us, to have the strength to get up from our harsh fall and relearn to walk away.
It is known that actions speak louder than words because words can be lost in the void. Those sweet, beautiful, trustful words we wait to hear… those that sometimes release our hearts and souls from pain… even if it was for a few minutes, those words which teach you how to fall in love… can be lost in the void. The truth is… that actions are the ones creating the void that those words might or might not fade into.
I think we realize after some time that we get hurt the most from the people we never expect them to hurt us, the ones with those beautiful promises, the ones who stayed with us when we had none to stay, the ones who we think are truly different from anyone we have ever met, the ones we let them in… whether our family, our friends or the person we love the most.
The more you feel pain, The harder it gets to trust again and to let someone in again. I truly understand how hard it is, that fear we have when someone seems like everything you ever dreamed of, that fear that tells us that maybe our thoughts are creating an illusion for us and that we might be wrong.
I just want to tell you that I truly understand how hard it is… to take a risk, to take a risk that might lead you to be the happiest or the unhappiest, but I also know that If you never take a risk, you will never know… because sometimes taking the risk can be worth it… worth all the pain, heartbreaking and scars that was once all you ever knew.
I hope you will always have the power to take a risk before it is too late, to love so hard when you have been loved so little, to trust when your trust has been broken, to have the courage to feel happy despite the fear of losing this happiness. But most of all, I hope you never have to look for the words lost in the void of their actions…